Talk about yourself first and not about your work. Also, make up your mind when it comes to how traditional or modern you are. Remember, we are all modern in terms of the tools we use such as the Internet, smartphones, television, to name a few. Doing what everybody does in this day and age doesnâ€™t make you modern! Taking a contradictory stance in the same sentence as you see below only confuses prospective matches. In the below example, you have very little information about the person other than a contradictory statement!